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You are Ready for the Next Level. Yet somehow, you Keep Sabotaging Yourself. Here’s Why.

  • Writer: Amandine S’iita
    Amandine S’iita
  • 11 minutes ago
  • 3 min read
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You are Ready for the Next Level.


You feel it….Yet somehow, you still find yourself holding back, repeating the same cycles, and sabotaging your own progress….


Here’s Why?


1. Self-Sabotage often comes from Fear.

Fear of the unknown, fear of success, fear of leaving behind what feels familiar even when it no longer serves you.


You say you want change, but somehow you keep ending up in the same place: same patterns, same habits, same results.


You’re not broken. Your mind just try to keep you safe by clinging to old habits, old identities, and old patterns, even though your spirit is calling you to rise higher…


How to overcome it ? Audit Your Lifestyle


Self-sabotage is REAL! That’s exactly why doing a lifestyle audit & reset is so important.


To stop and look at your life with honest eyes.


To recognize where you’re out of alignment where your thoughts, actions, or habits are no longer serving you, and to finally take back control.


Because here’s the truth: Just because you’re busy doesn’t mean you’re growing. Just because you’re moving doesn’t mean you’re progressing. Movement isn’t the same as progress!


So, take a look at your life right now and ask yourself:

  • Are your daily habits bringing you closer to the life you dream of, or keeping you stuck in the past?

  • Are you truly moving forward… or just running in circles?

  • What excuses come up most often when you’re about to take action?

  • What patterns keep showing up when you want to take action toward your goals?


Once you spot your self-sabotaging patterns, it’s time to take action and reclaim your control.

2. You pray for Growth, but growth requires Discomfort.


You want change, but change asks you to let go of the version of yourself that no longer fits where you’re going.


And sometimes, the resistance you feel is simply your lower self trying to protect its comfort zone.


How to overcome it ? Shift your focus from fear to faith.


Acknowledge that discomfort is a natural part of growth — it’s a sign you’re expanding beyond your limits.


Instead of resisting it, lean in with awareness.


When fear or resistance shows up, pause and ask yourself:

  • What part of me is afraid of this change?

  • What am I afraid to lose?


Then, reassure yourself that it’s safe to grow.


Start taking small, consistent steps toward the new version of you — even if it feels uncomfortable.


Each step teaches your mind that change isn’t dangerous, it’s necessary for your evolution.

And each time fear shows up, reframe it as proof that you’re stepping into growth. Say to yourself: “I’m equipped for it. I can handle what’s next.


3. God wouldn’t place a vision in your heart without also giving you the strength, wisdom, and resources to fulfill it.


The next chapter of your life is waiting for you, but you keep delaying the very blessing you’ve been asking for.


It’s your responsibility to break free from self-sabotage. And it’s on you to choose:

  • Discipline over distraction.

  • Courage over fear.

  • Faith over doubt.


You’re not waiting on the right time — the right time is waiting on YOU.


How to overcome it ? Create habits that align with your vision.


Even when motivation fades, show up with discipline.Act as if it’s already yours — that’s how faith becomes real.


Start building habits that align with your vision.Discipline is the bridge between where you are and where you’re meant to be.


Each time you act in alignment, you tell the universe, “I’m ready.”You strengthen your faith by moving before you see the evidence.


Act as if it’s already yours — because it is.


That’s how faith becomes real.


That’s how vision becomes reality.


It’s actually very simple to uncover what’s been holding you back and why you keep sabotaging yourself. But it requires honesty with yourself and the willingness to change what isn’t working.


It all starts with self-awareness.


If you’re ready to step into the next version of yourself and stop sabotaging the blessings meant for you. I’ve got you.


Start here and watch your life change!

Amandine S’iita

Writer & Holistic Lifestyle Coach

 
 
 

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