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How Being in the Wrong Environment Can Blind You to Abundance

Updated: Sep 19, 2023


In our quest for prosperity and abundance, we often focus on external factors: our careers, finances, and personal achievements. We work tirelessly to accumulate wealth and success, believing that these tangible markers of prosperity will bring us happiness and fulfillment.


However, what if I told you that sometimes, prosperity and abundance are already present in your life, but you cannot see them because you’re in the wrong environment?


This phenomenon occurs when we fail to recognize the wealth of intangible blessings around us due to the negative influences of our surroundings.


The Illusion of Scarcity


One of the most significant challenges we face when living in the wrong environment is the illusion of scarcity. We become so engrossed in chasing after external markers of success that we overlook the abundance that already surrounds us. This illusion can lead to a perpetual state of discontentment, as we’re constantly seeking more, believing that we’ll finally find contentment when we reach our next goal.


For example, let’s consider my own experience. I found myself living in the bustling heart of Toronto. Like many others, I assessed my success primarily based on my income and job title, often disregarding the abundance of serenity and tranquility that awaited me in a place like Bali. While Toronto City undoubtedly provided numerous opportunities and excitement, the relentless hustle and bustle obscured my view of deeper forms of abundance — the profound sense of peace and the unhurried pace of life found in Bali. Here, I discovered a deeper sense of connection with nature, a slower rhythm of life, and a greater appreciation for the present moment. I discovered the essence of the “soft life”, where I allowed myself to break free from perpetual survival mode by prioritizing mental well-being.

The Balinese way of life encouraged mindfulness, gratitude, and a focus on inner well-being, qualities that often got lost in the frenetic pace of metropolitan living. From the offerings scattered around the streets to the smell of the incense, and the genuine smiles on people’s faces, Bali has a deep spirituality that calms the soul.


In Bali, I finally experienced the sensation of abundance in the form of tranquility, inner peace, and a richer connection with myself and the world around me. The shift from the bustling city to this tropical paradise was transformative, allowing me to uncover the hidden wealth of serenity and contentment that had eluded me in my previous environment.

The Toxic Influences of Negative Environments

The environment in which we live plays a significant role in shaping our perspective on life. Negative environments, characterized by toxic relationships, unhealthy habits, and societal pressures, can cloud our vision and prevent us from recognizing the abundance in our lives.

These environments can be mentally, emotionally, and even physically draining, making it challenging to appreciate the prosperity that may exist within us.

Imagine a person who is constantly surrounded by people who undermine their self-worth or who engage in self-destructive behaviors. In such an environment, it becomes increasingly difficult for that individual to recognize their inner strength and potential for success. They may become trapped in a cycle of self-doubt and negativity, unable to see the abundance of resilience and determination they possess. Shifting Your Perspective

Recognizing the abundance already present in your life, even in the wrong environment, is a crucial step toward personal growth and fulfillment. Prosperity and abundance are not solely defined by external markers of success; they are also deeply rooted in our internal experiences and perspectives.

Living in the wrong environment can blind us to the wealth of intangible blessings that exist within and around us.

Take the bold step of changing your surroundings to unlock the abundance

Sometimes, we find ourselves trapped in environments that don’t align with our true values, aspirations, or inner peace. It takes courage to recognize when a change is needed and to take the necessary steps to make it happen.

Whether you yearn for more tranquility, a deeper connection with nature, or simply a break from the relentless demands of city life, it’s within your power to reshape your environment.

Consider the practical steps involved in this transformation:

  1. Self-Reflection: Begin by reflecting on your goals and values. What does abundance mean to you beyond financial success? What elements of your current environment are hindering your sense of fulfillment?

  2. Research: Investigate potential new environments or locations that align better with your aspirations. In today’s interconnected world, there are numerous resources available to help you explore new places and lifestyles.

  3. Planning: Create a well-thought-out plan for your transition. This may include financial preparation, job opportunities in your desired location, and a timeline for the move.

  4. Taking the Leap: The decision to change your environment can be daunting, but it can also be incredibly rewarding. Trust in your ability to adapt and embrace the unknown. Sometimes, the most profound growth happens when you step out of your comfort zone.

  5. Adaptation: Understand that adapting to a new environment takes time. Be patient with yourself and allow yourself to fully experience the richness of your new surroundings.

  6. Mindfulness: Continue to practice mindfulness and gratitude in your new environment. This will help you stay attuned to the abundance that may have previously eluded you.

When we find ourselves in a place that fails to nourish our souls and hinders our perception of the abundance in our lives, we must remember that the power to bring about change resides within us.


Abundance goes beyond mere accumulation; it often involves the quest forthe right environment that allows us to fully embrace the richness that has always been present, patiently waiting to be discovered.

Amandine S’iita

Inspirational & Speaker




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